WARNING: This story discusses sexual abuse and suicide which some readers/viewers may find distressing

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Published in Star Kiwi

Ken Clearwater’s mother knew something was up with her son.

It was 1965 in the Christchurch suburb of Papanui. The phone rang and it was Ken’s school headmaster. He too was worried. There was anger that had not been there before in the then 12-year-old. She went down to the police station and asked them to follow her son.

In this two-part series, Ken shares his story of surviving childhood rape and the anger which threatened to consume his life. He has gone on to help thousands of men, including George Russell who 18 months ago sought help from Ken after suffering in silence over his abuse as an 11-year-old from a priest. Over the next year, thousands of stories are expected to emerge in New Zealand. ‘It’s going to be the biggest thing that hit this country,’ he says.

In December, Ken received a Civic Award from Mayor Lianne Dalziel.

IF YOU NEED HELP

If you feel you or someone else is in danger call 111. If you are concerned about your mental health call your GP, a helpline, community organisation or Crisis Resolution 0800 920 092

Male Survivors Canterbury 03 377 6747 survivor@canmen.org.nz

The Canterburys Men’s Centre 03 365 9000 txt 022 302 4966

Male Survivors Aotearoa
Lifeline – 0800 543 354 or (09) 5222 999 within Auckland
Suicide Crisis Helpline – 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO)
Healthline – 0800 611 116
Samaritans – 0800 726 666
Need To Talk? – 1737

By Geoff Sloan and Shelley Robinson
Published in Star Kiwi
January 18, 2019